Make Her Fall In Love- 4 Tips To Grab a Woman's Attention

by: C Tyler

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Date: Wed, 30 Dec 2009 Time: 11:47 AM - 21 comments

Copyright (c) 2009 C Tyler

Shy guys usually have it the hardest, but most guys still share in the struggles to get attention from a woman. Yet, this is absolutely necessary, because how can you start to even try and make a woman fall in love with you, if you cannot even get her to notice you?

You can see that this is more important than anything. The ability to grab a woman's attention and make her notice you. So, you might be thinking, well, sounds easy enough. But, how can I do this?

How can I get a woman to notice ME?

Here are 4 tips to get her attention and make her fall in love with YOU:

1. Start with the appearance.

Yes, a book does get judged by it's cover and so does a man when he first meets a woman. Now, depending on your style, this does not mean that you have to become a fashion conscious male. You can be a regular down home kind of guy and still maintain a neat appearance. Don't leave the house with the chili stained t-shirt that you wore at the bar two weeks ago. Keep yourself clean, showered, and looking like you are a man that knows where he is going in life.

2. Show off your personality.

You might think that you have to give off the facade of being extra cool to get a woman to notice you, but that is far from the truth. What you do have to be able to do, is to step out of the shadow and allow a woman to SEE who you are. Don't be afraid to be a more dynamic version of yourself. Look, you can be a science fiction geek and still pull an attractive woman. You just have to be able to show off the best parts of YOUR personality.

3. Have fun when you are around her.

The last thing that you want to do is to be a killjoy when you around a woman that you want to impress. Nobody gets excited about being around a bore. You have to be able to show her that you can let loose and have a good time. She wants to spend time with someone that makes life enjoyable, so show her that YOU can be this guy.

4. Always, always RELAX.

A lot of men get tense, nervous, and just out of place when they are in the presence of a woman. This is naturally going to turn a woman off. She needs to see that you are relaxed in your own skin and that you feel comfortable, no matter where you are. This will make her start to feel the same way when she is around YOU.